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Summer [Justice] Book Clubs for Kids

14 Wednesday May 2014

Posted by Marta Oti Sears in justice, parenting, summer

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book club, children's book club, Gary Haugen, Good News About Injustice, IJM, International Justice Mission, justice, justice book club, justice books, kids book club, moms, reading, summer book club

Jenae Head shotJenae Dryden is an educator and mom who is inspiring a passion for justice in kids through summer book clubs.

I met Jenae fifteen years ago on a month-long trip to India and Nepal when she was a student and I worked in the Spiritual Life department at George Fox University. A decade and a half later our paths crossed online because of our parallel justice awakenings and shared desire to instill a passion for justice in our children.

I hope you enjoy this interview with Jenae. Perhaps you’ll be inspired to read some of her favorite justice books with your kids, share them with other kids you know and love, or start your own justice book club.

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Q: Who is the book club for and when and where do you meet?

For practical reasons, the book club has been for girls who are about the age of my daughter, plus or minus a few years, and their moms. Initially, the ages were about 4-7, now it’s closer to 6-10. The content and discussions have matured each year.

We meet about four times during the summer because the girls are out of school and as a school-based speech-language pathologist, I am off during the summer too. Most of the moms who come are either stay-at-home moms, work part-time, or are teachers.

We live in the Pacific Northwest, so summer is a lovely time to meet outside at a park and it makes it easy for moms with younger/older children to come and have a place for the kids to play while we meet.

The downside to summer is families’ vacation schedules, so sometimes attendance is sporadic.

 

Q: What led you to start the book club? 

When my kids were two and four, and were finally, consistently sleeping through the night, my brain woke up after a four-year hibernation and I had the energy and mental clarity to read interesting books again and think about things outside the four walls of my home.

At the same time, God was drawing me closer to him and opening my eyes to truths in the Bible that I hadn’t considered before. I came across a book written by Gary Haugen, the president of International Justice Mission (IJM), a human rights organization that rescues and restores victims of violence, sexual exploitation, slavery, and oppression.

Good News About InjusticeHaugen’s book, The Good News About Injustice profoundly impacted me. The reality of human trafficking, modern-day slavery, and other forms of violent oppression in the world, along with Haugen’s numerous references to scripture about God’s passion for justice confronted me. As a woman, a mom, and as a person who claims to follow Jesus, I cared deeply about these issues. I just didn’t know what to do about it.

So I followed the example of Haugen and his IJM colleagues and I prayed. I thanked God for sparking a passion inside of me for justice and asked him to show me how to work for justice, contribute to the work of IJM, and do it in a way that my little family could be on the journey with me. Within a short amount of time, God answered that prayer very clearly.

One night I was meditating on a passage from Ephesians 5:8-11: “For you were once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Live as children of light (for the fruit of the light is all goodness, righteousness, and truth). And find out what pleases the Lord. Have nothing to do with the fruitless deeds of darkness, but rather expose them.”

The next morning, the words ran through my head again and the idea of a mother-daughter book club flashed through my mind. What if, together with some other moms and their daughters, we lived as children of light, teaching our girls about justice, compassion, courage, and love; and shed light on the darkness in our world in a way that was developmentally appropriate, drew others into the journey, and raised awareness and support for IJM? I mentioned the idea to some friends and started the book club that summer.

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Q: What is a typical book club meeting like?

Each year has been a learning process, but I thought the format we used last summer worked really well for their ages. We met about four times during the summer. About a week before each meeting, I’d send out an Evite to everyone I had talked to who had expressed interest in the book club. (There were about 20 moms altogether, and usually, between 6-10 moms with their daughters were able to come each time).

We met up at a park and gathered our blankets around on the grass. I’d always start with a brief introduction about why we were meeting together. I had asked the girls to bring a book from home that they liked and to share something about the book (e.g., title, author, setting, characters, etc.). I’d model first, then have the girls practice answering the question with their mom, then share with the whole group.

Then I’d read aloud a chapter from the book we chose for the summer (last year it was “The Hundred Dresses”) and have a discussion about that chapter as well as the previous chapter, which they would have read at home during the week. The questions were simple, and my goal was to get them to think about the story, apply it to their lives, and make a connection to justice.

I then talked a bit about fiction vs. nonfiction and I brought in some children’s biographies (from the local library) about a historical woman or girl who was a real life justice hero. We talked about how she exemplified love, justice, courage, compassion, etc. with her life and were able to touch on some difficult moments in history (slavery, holocaust, etc.).

I planned a short activity for the girls to understand the concepts better. For example, when we talked about Mother Teresa, I gave each girl a Band-Aid to put on her mom and practice saying compassionate words to someone who is hurting.

Finally, we talked a little about IJM, modern-day slavery, and worked on our “Freedom Friends,” stuffed toys the girls and moms sewed which we gathered and sold at the end of the summer to raise money for IJM. Each time we talked about how the girls were helping to free slaves by making Freedom Friends. The whole thing took about an hour.

Jenae freedom friend

 

Q: What’s been the biggest benefit or highlight of the club?

I don’t know if I can pick just one! I have loved finding a “tribe” of like-minded moms; teaching children about God’s heart for justice and how that applies to us at home, at school, and in the world; and getting to empower small girls to actually work toward the end of modern-day slavery.

Introducing more people to the amazing work of International Justice Mission is also a highlight. Last summer, someone from IJM found out about the book club and visited one of our meetings. That was really encouraging.

 

Q: Do you have another book club in the works? 

Yes! My son, who is two years younger than my daughter has tagged along, sometimes participating, sometimes just running around during our book club gatherings. Last year he started asking for his own book club. Well, if I care that much about justice, I figured I better do something about that! A good friend of mine who has three boys is joining me in launching a Justice Book Club for Boys this summer.

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Q: Do you have any advice or encouragement for parents interested in starting their own book club?

1. Pray and listen to God.

My book club began as a result of prayer – I felt burdened with the desire to do something about the terrible injustices in the world and to raise my kids in a way that they would grow up knowing that God loves justice and empowers us as Christians to seek justice in our world. I believe the initial idea of the book club, the moms and girls who came, and the action steps and ideas that have sprung from it have come as an answer to that prayer.

2. Define your purposes for the book club.

They might be different from mine! I had a few purposes:

  • Encourage a love of reading, and help girls learn about books and how to talk about books.
  • Teach the girls about people and places in the world that are very different from us. I wanted to broaden their worldview and introduce them to some difficult topics in a positive and developmentally appropriate way.
  • Raise awareness and funds for International Justice Mission.

So I knew my book club had to have a literacy/communication component (each time I introduced a different aspect of the book and the girls learned to talk about it), a justice component (hands-on activities and discussions that help them understand justice, compassion, courage, love, etc. in real situations globally and locally), and a fundraising component (IJM has a great fundraising tool online.

3. Be flexible and don’t put too much pressure on yourself to do things perfectly or do too much.

Start small and remember that any mom that comes with her daughter is just glad that you’re doing something! Also, don’t be discouraged by a seeming lack of interest in the justice-related topics, even from your own kids! We’re planting seeds and trusting God to make them grow.

Last, include other friends and family who don’t have kids in the book club by telling them about it. Some of my biggest cheerleaders and prayer warriors for this have been people who don’t actually come to the book club. My husband, John, comes to mind immediately.

The No 1 Car Spotter

 

Q: What books would you recommend? 

These are the books we have used:

  • Betsy-Tacy by Maud Hart Lovelace. A lovely story about a friendship between two girls who were just starting school.
  • Rickshaw Girl by Mitali Perkins. About a girl in Bangladesh who tries to find a solution to her family’s financial difficulties. It discusses issues related to gender inequality, poverty, and resourcefulness in an accessible way for children.
  • The Hundred Dresses by Eleanor Estes. This timeless story touches on friendship, bullying, immigrants, empathy, and making the decision to “never stand by and say nothing again.” We had very rich discussions with this one.
  • Anything by Atinuke. This summer we are planning on reading Anna Hibiscus with the girls and The No. 1 Car Spotter with the boys. Atinuke is a wonderful storyteller and her books delightfully and poignantly capture the beautiful and ugly of two communities (rural and urban) in an unnamed region of Africa.
  • Last summer we talked quite a bit about fiction vs. nonfiction and I brought in biographies of real life justice heroes – women like Mother Teresa, Ruby Bridges, Corrie Ten Boom, and Harriet Tubman.

Jenae blogs at NowYouAreLight.wordpress.com. She also has a Pinterest board where she collects book club ideas: http://www.pinterest.com/jenae010100/

Please share in the comments any children’s books you’ve read that you think would work well for a justice book club.

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Does “Bossy” = Leadership?

14 Friday Mar 2014

Posted by Marta Oti Sears in equality, gender, justice, parenting

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#BanBossy, assertive, ban bossy, bossy, girls and leadership, leadership, personality and leadership

BanBossyHoldBackHave you heard about Ban Bossy—a campaign initiated by the Girls Scouts and Facebook COO Sheryl Sandberg’s nonprofit organization LeanIn.org? If you haven’t, here’s the core message of the campaign in a nutshell:

“When a little boy asserts himself, he’s called a “leader.” Yet when a little girl does the same, she risks being branded “bossy.” Words like bossy send a message: don’t raise your hand or speak up. By middle school, girls are less interested in leading than boys—a trend that continues into adulthood. Together we can encourage girls to lead. Pledge to Ban Bossy.”

I totally agree with this message. Parents, educators, and youth leaders need to pay attention to, and change, the way we talk to girls.

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The words we use reveal the messages we live by.

Do I tend to think of men and boys as leaders? How often do I use the word “leader” to describe a woman or a girl? Am I more put off by qualities of assertiveness and directness when I experience them in women than in men?

By asking us to think about the words we choose, Ban Bossy is causing us to think about deep-seated myths about gender.

I’m grateful to LeanIn.org and the Girl Scouts for challenging us to recognize that leadership is not bound by gender. I’d like to add that it’s not bound by temperament either.

Several years ago, my kids were playing with a little boy who had an assertive personality. He was speaking louder than the other kids, doing the majority of the talking, and telling the other kids what he wanted them to do. His mom, somewhat apologetically, said, “We’re working on trying to help him be a little less bossy.” After a brief pause, his dad said, “Or we’re just going to start calling him a leader.”

I laughed along with the other parents, but I remember being annoyed that this person was equating “bossy” with “leadership.”

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Having an assertive personality doesn’t automatically make a person a good leader.  Unhealthy assertive types can make particularly bad leaders when their assertiveness disintegrates into aggression, dominance, control, and abuse of power. We rightly refer to these people as dictators rather than leaders.

Assertive personality types can be great leaders, of course, especially as they learn to listen well and often, welcome other people’s ideas, and share power.

But people with more withdrawn personality types can also be great leaders. They naturally tend to listen well and share power, and they can learn to assert themselves and exhibit confidence through their body language and the vocal volume.

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Spiritual Direction Tip: Parents, pay attention to what bothers you most in your child or what you are most worried about for your child. Are you worried that your son will be seen as weak and called a “wimp?” Are you worried that your daughter will be seen as overbearing and be called a “bitch?”

Do you tend to judge a quality as bad or good? Can you see the value of sensitivity, or do you tend to judge it as “over-sensitivity.” Can you see the value of assertiveness, or do you tend to judge it as “pushy.”

We often try to shut down in our children the things that we haven’t come to terms with in ourselves.

Christians look to Jesus as our flagship example of a great leader. Jesus embraced and exhibited both lion and lamb-like qualities. He turned over tables and held young children. He challenged the religious establishment and wept over the city of Jerusalem. He was decisive about healing people on the Sabbath and he hesitated in the Garden of Gethsemane, questioning whether there might be another way.

To follow Jesus’s example of leadership is to integrate both the lion and the lamb within us.

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If a father hasn’t learned to embrace both the lion and the lamb within himself, and over identifies as a lion—believing that this is what makes him a man—he will shame his son when his son exhibits lamb-like qualities.

A mother can also over-identify as a lion, believing her lion qualities are what make her a strong woman. She may shame her daughter for exhibiting lamb-like qualities out of fear that her daughter will one day be taken advantage or abused by a man if she doesn’t become strong enough.

A mother may also over-identify as a lamb, believing this is what make her “feminine” or “a good Christian woman.” She may shame her daughter when she exhibits lion-like qualities, fearing that her daughter will not fit into the narrow view of “Biblical womanhood” that she lives by.

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Words matter. Collectively they make up the messages by which we think and act.

We are not immune to cultural messages and neither are our kids. If we think certain messages are hurting our kids, we have the opportunity and the responsibility to change them.

So notice the next time you use the word “bossy,” or almost use it. Is there a better word? Better yet, is there a better way to think about and engage with the assertive person before you that both values the way God designed her, and at the same time values the other person with whom she is relating.

(A special thanks to Catherine Skurja for her work on the lion/lamb concept as it relates to spirituality and personality. Read more in her book Paradox Lost. Thanks also to Richard Rohr and Andreas Ebert for their insight on Jesus and personality in their book The Enneagram: A Christian Perspective.)

 

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Why This Year’s Super Bowl Ads Were Less Sexist

08 Saturday Feb 2014

Posted by Marta Oti Sears in gender, justice, sexuality

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advertising, gender equality, marketing to women, Red Letter Christians, Representation, super bowl, super bowl ads, Super Bowl advertising, super bowl commercials, Super Bowl watcher, women

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My article “Why This Year’s Super Bowl Ads Were Less Sexist” was published by Red Letter Christians today. Here it is:

If you’re a regular Super Bowl watcher, you probably noticed that this year’s commercials were different from those of past years—they were notably less sexist. While a few ads still sank to Mad Men lows, overall, fewer ads contained hyper-sexualized, objectifying depictions of women. And some ads were distinctively empowering.

What caused this departure in Super Bowl advertising? Why did some of last year’s worst offenders like web hosting company Go Daddy take a decidedly different approach this year?

3% ConferenceKat Gordon, advertising veteran and founder of The 3% Conference, believes that much of the credit goes to groups like The Representation Project and Miss Representation whose #NotBuyingIt and #MediaWeLike campaigns have empowerd people to call-out sexist misrepresentations of women and girls in the media and to praise advertisers when they get it right.

“I believe [The Representation Project and Miss Representation] are absolutely a force that has gotten on the radar of brands,” Gordon said in a live Google chat Wednesday about this year’s Super Bowl ads. Speaking to a member of The Representation Project, Gordon said, “I really love what you have mobilized and [that you’ve] given people a way to talk back; giving brands a way to listen in and respond. I really credit you for being the force that has changed the flavor and temperature of the ads this year.”

“More than 80% of all purchases are made by women,” Gordon says on the conference website. “Yet most women say they don’t like the way they’re marketed to.” Gordon gave The 3% Conference its name because women make up only three percent of the Creative Directors in advertising agencies.

As followers of Jesus, we’re called to align our passions with God’s passions and “to promote justice” (Micah 6:8 NET). We live in a culture that habitually devalues women, subtly and overtly. Much has changed since Jesus walked the earth two thousands years ago, yet women and girls continue to be objectified and marginalized.

miss representationThe movement sparked by the Miss Representation documentary and The Representation Project reminds me of Jesus’ knack for speaking truth to power (think Pharisees and Sadducees). Will the church take the opportunity to live into her prophetic tradition and live out Jesus’s values by participating in these types of movements? Is it time for some streams of the church to put the protest back in Protestant, as author and activist Shane Claiborne has said? Catholics, Protestants, Contemplatives, and Calvinists, our voices make a difference.

“Advertising is broken due to a failure of imagination” Gordon said in a recent TEDxTalk. The next time you see an ad that undermines the value of women, seize the moment and employ your prophetic imagination; wield your phone and tell the power brokers of Madison Avenue and Corporate America what you think. Why? Because changing the messages we live by, changes the world.

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Why We Need to Read More Women

29 Wednesday Jan 2014

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My article “Why We Need to Read More Women: Our book choices reveal whose influence we value and whose we don’t” was published by Relevant magazine today.

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“It’s a truth universally acknowledged that, although women read more than men, and books by female authors are published in roughly the same numbers, they are more easily overlooked,” Joanna Walsh wrote in a column in The Guardian last week.

And it seems she’s right. Though we can all think of a few women authors we love, most of our bookshelves seem to be laden with material mostly from male authors.

There’s more evidence of this beyond our own bookshelves. Vida, an organization that counts the number of times women and men are published in many of the world’s “most respected literary outlets,” publishes an annual “Count” with pie charts and reports of gender imbalance in the writing world. The numbers are sobering.

But does it matter? Does it matter if men only read books by male authors? Does it matter if women mostly read books by male authors? Yes. Because who we choose to read is who we allow and invite to influence us. Our book choices reveal whose influence we value and whose we don’t.

Blogger Rob Carmack recently lamented the fact that many Christians, especially Christian men, miss out on the powerful voices of women because they refuse to read what they refer to as “girl books” (books by women authors). Carmack believes part of the problem lies with Christian publishers that market books authored by women almost exclusively to women, in cover design and promotion. But Carmack has chosen, quite literally, not to judge a book by its floral or pastel cover in order to read more books by women. In doing so, he’s encountered compelling and insightful voices such as Rachel Held Evans, Sarah Bessey, Shauna Niequist, Sarah Cunningham, Susan Isaacs, Lauren Winner, Nadia Bolz-Weber and more.

In his post, Carmack specifically challenges Christian men to read more women authors. “It’s not just about equality or fairness—it’s about being part of a vibrant, relevant conversation,” he said. “If you want to miss it, that’s your choice, I suppose. As for me—not only for myself, but for my wife, my daughter and my son—I will listen to these great voices, and I will continue learning from what they have to say.”

I wanted to stand up and cheer when I read those words, but I also felt compelled to examine the male/female author ratio of the books I had recently read to see if I too needed to take up his challenge to read more women authors. Women’s bookshelves are certainly not immune to gender imbalance, since Christian women are as likely as men to hear messages that devalue the voices and influence of women, both within the Church and in the culture at large.

That’s why voices like Carmack’s, which acknowledge they have much to learn from those whom their culture (and Christian subculture) has marginalized, are so important. There’s a beautiful Kingdom-of-God quality to voices that question the status quo and confront culturally ingrained systems of power and privilege.

And giving equal weight to male and female voices is important in all areas of life, not just literature. Marriage researcher John Gottman found that husbands who are willing to be influenced by their wives experience happier marriages than men who resist their wives’ influence. His research revealed that the happiest, most stable marriages were those in which the husband respected his wife and willingly shared power and decision making with her.

This research isn’t surprising, and its implications seem to extend beyond the realm of marriage relationships. Even a cursory glance of the Gospels reveal that Jesus was a man who treated women with respect. Have you noticed that the healthiest and strongest men, the most whole men, the men who most resemble Jesus are the ones who respect, befriend, learn from and empower women?

These men see through counterfeit perceptions of masculinity that equate maleness with dominance. They refuse to be gatekeepers of male privilege and the “good ol’ boy” network, and if that means having to endure insults and attacks on their “manhood,” they do so.

The hope for the Church is that men and women will relate to each other from a posture of love rather than fear, realizing that God’s Kingdom is not a Kingdom of scarcity, but abundance. God’s table is big enough for all of us and all our voices.

The author of Genesis said that God created us—male and female—in God’s own image. When we intentionally or unintentionally cut ourselves off from listening to half of the world’s population, we miss out on the fullness of God.

The next time you’re on Amazon, notice the authors of the books in your browsing history. Notice the books that Amazon is recommending to you based on your history. If there are few or no women on your lists, you’ll face a decision: You can react defensively and try to convince yourself that your predominantly male library is in no need of change. Or you can see it as an opportunity to grow your library and yourself, and experience more of God as you embrace all the bearers of God’s image.

Rachel Held Evans recently posted a list of 101 Christian Women Speakers, many of whom are also writers, authors and bloggers. If you need a place to start, this is a good one.

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5 Ways to Celebrate Nelson Mandela With Your Child (and Instill a Passion for Justice)

10 Tuesday Dec 2013

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Mandela book coverToday or anytime this week is a perfect opportunity to help instill a passion for justice in your child by talking about Nelson Mandela’s life and impact.

1. If you watch the news on TV, call them over to watch the coverage of today’s memorial service in Soweto, South Africa. Or show them an online news video of highlights from today’s service.

Or watch this 4-minute tribute poem by Maya Angelou together.

2. If you’re a turn-up-the-music-and-dance-in-the-living-room kind of family, find a South African song on iTunes, Spotify, or YouTube and celebrate freedom and justice through dance. A few song suggestions: “Lion in a Cage (Nelson Mandela)” by Dolores Keane, “Freedom is Coming,” or “Siyahamba” (We are Marching). Dance is a powerful, embodied way to celebrate and educate. (This morning I danced to “Lion in a Cage” with a small group of women in an African dance class. It was awesome!)

3. Check out a children’s book about Nelson Mandela from your local or school library this week and read it with your child.

4. Share with your child in your own words why you are grateful for Nelson Mandela’s life. You could also share this video of a song tribute to Mandela by the Soweto Gospel Choir in a Woolworths store in Johannesburg. (With English translation.)

5. If you come from a Christian tradition, tell your child that God is passionate about justice–that justice is part of God’s character–and share a verse like Micah 6:8: “And what does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.” Or Isaiah 1:17:

“Learn to do good.
Seek justice.
Help the oppressed.
Defend the cause of orphans.
Fight for the rights of widows.”

Any day is a good day to seek to instill a heart for justice in your child. But days and weeks like this one are particularly excellent opportunities.

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